In general I don't have these issues anyway as I go out with men who are dominant - check it out first or mention it before meeting but people not in that situation need to know what to look for. Another one is to give her an instruction of whatever kind - if she's submissive she might complain about it being hard or that it might not be capable of being achieved but importantly she's not saying she won't do it or it's appalling you've taken charge.

Given you can't turn most women over your knee and spank them (good test when you get that far and a light slap in bed can be a good test of the waters) I liked your suggestions of the hand on the back or arm. A hand round her wrist rather than holding her arm is too forward in most contexts but a good test as is pulling her hair, a light slap on the face, holding her hands above her head in bed... but those things come later, if at all. Practice helps. I can see by the way someone treats me if he's this way inclined. What I find very hard and have probably lost good men by it, is someone shy, socially incompetent, nervous, not assertive at least initially. That's so unattractive and yet buried in there might be a good man who could dominate. They somehow need to learn to bring it out earlier.

after the fact I always think of something I should have said. if you apply that here you’d have another post on your hands

Reply Willy Wonka June 15, 2010 at 9:39 am Yeah, I gotta stop that asking a question after a chick ask me something. CuteNewChick even called me out on that on our 2nd date, “can you stop repeating everything I ask you back to me?” Lol.

I don’t know why I do that, I think it’s because I don’t like the fact that they asked me that particular question and I’m trying to buy time to avoid it. Some natural beta way of disliking shit tests, I’m sure.

I just have to approach shit tests differently and not be surprised when a girl asks anything and just beat them back down.

Reply Flahute June 15, 2010 at 9:14 am

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